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  Put down your phone and Post-it Notes for just a minute. I know you’re busy rewriting your to-do list in your head, first chronologically and then in order of task magnitude and then visually like a pie chart with different colors for each slice of pie according to how long each thing will take, but you can spare a little time.

  I just want to tell you that your outfit today is spot on. Are you wearing seasonal socks? The rumpled, under-the-elbow half-roll of your sleeves didn’t happen by accident, either. You looked up a video tutorial online so that you could do it right, I bet. And before you closed out the video, you probably left a review.

  Not only does everyone find your appearance neat and visually pleasing, but we also admire your emails, too. You have a real sense for when to go with bullet points instead of paragraphs.

  The dinner you made for your book club last night had to have taken you hours to plan and execute. Did you use a vegetable peeler or a paring knife to get the sides of the cucumber to look like green-and-white peppermint stripes? That was a whimsical touch. People don’t think about that sort of thing enough.

  I want you to know that I see your face when someone parks over the line in a crowded parking lot and wastes a whole second spot, and I know your scowl isn’t really about the parking space. When you stop to pick up trash on a sidewalk or put the to-go menus back in their rack at the sandwich shop, you wish you didn’t have to. You’d rather everyone else pulled their weight, but if they won’t, you will. Sometimes it feels like they slack off because they know you’ll catch whatever balls they drop.

  This leaves you in a state of simmering low-grade resentment, and you feel guilty about occasionally having the urge to throw your laptop at someone’s face. You wish these things didn’t get to you. You want to live and let live.

  But I know you can’t help it.

  I know that even if you wound the clock all the way back to the first time you can remember being this way — the moment you perceived that when you got things right, you got love, that when you achieved, you felt peace — that there’d probably still be no way to undo it. It’s in your nature.

  You see yourself the way you think the world sees you, so you value yourself only when you are accomplishing and producing and finishing and succeeding. If you can’t value yourself, then there’s no reason to get up every morning, and if there’s no reason to get up, then … what? You feel untethered, as if someone has turned off gravity and you’ve been spun into infinite space, a black hole that demands, “What’s the point of you?”

  It’s hard to explain to people that if you get the punctuation wrong in a tweet, your world becomes a purposeless void. Not everyone gets it.

  But I do. So let me tell you: I approve of the organic lip balm in the eco-friendly tube that you used this morning because it’s good for your skin and also good for the planet. I saw that you waited at the four-way stop until it was your turn. I noticed that you R.S.V.P.’d to all the invitations in your inbox promptly.

  You nailed it — all of it.

  I know how much you need to hear this.

  I can never hear it enough.

  Mary Laura Philpott is the author of the memoir-in-essays “I Miss You When I Blink.”

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  管家婆三中三期期准【死】【亡】【战】【士】【在】【沉】【默】【的】【送】【死】【中】【渐】【渐】【越】【来】【越】【少】,【战】【斗】【己】【经】【接】【近】【尾】【声】。【四】【百】【多】【个】【死】【亡】【战】【士】【在】【战】【宠】、【游】【侠】【和】【法】【师】【的】【联】【合】【绞】【杀】【下】【只】【剩】【下】【不】【到】【一】【百】【人】,【而】【羽】【林】【血】【鹰】【的】【箭】【囊】【里】【的】【箭】【也】【已】【经】【耗】【光】【了】。 【一】【个】【精】【灵】【游】【侠】【见】【状】,【取】【出】【一】【袋】【装】【满】【箭】【矢】【的】【备】【用】【箭】【袋】【递】【给】【羽】【林】【血】【鹰】【用】。 【羽】【林】【血】【鹰】【接】【过】【箭】【袋】,【转】【头】【看】【了】【一】【下】【希】【尔】【瓦】【纳】【斯】【方】【向】,【却】【见】【希】

  【夏】【凉】【一】【大】【早】【起】【来】,【看】【着】【旁】【边】【的】【祁】【寒】,【微】【微】【一】【笑】,【往】【祁】【寒】【身】【边】【靠】【了】【靠】,【如】【同】【小】【时】【候】【一】【般】。 【一】【夜】【之】【间】,【曾】【经】【的】【事】【情】【就】【如】【同】【上】【辈】【子】【一】【般】,【这】【一】【世】,【夏】【凉】【从】【未】【后】【悔】【过】,【最】【起】【码】,【能】【够】【有】【现】【在】【的】【结】【局】,【夏】【凉】【已】【经】【是】【感】【恩】【了】,【上】【辈】【子】,【她】【孤】【身】【一】【个】【人】,【从】【来】【都】【是】【如】【此】,【一】【个】【人】【做】【着】【好】【事】,【一】【个】【人】【做】【着】【坏】【事】,【一】【个】【人】【听】【歌】,【一】【个】【人】【唱】

  【阮】【二】【哥】【不】【禁】【摸】【着】【自】【己】【的】【脸】,【难】【道】【他】【长】【得】【不】【好】【看】? 【陷】【入】【怀】【疑】【的】【阮】【二】【哥】【从】【衣】【襟】【里】【摸】【出】【来】【一】【块】【巴】【掌】【大】【的】【铜】【镜】,【看】【着】【里】【面】【的】【人】,【挺】【好】【看】【啊】。 【瞧】【瞧】,【这】【眉】【眼】【多】【精】【致】! 【这】【唇】【瓣】【多】【饱】【满】! 【还】【有】【这】【一】【头】【秀】【发】,【白】【皙】【的】【肌】【肤】,【他】【是】【女】【人】【都】【心】【动】! “【囡】【囡】,【你】【想】【要】【人】【多】【一】【起】【玩】【热】【闹】,【可】【以】【喊】【上】【小】【一】【小】【二】,【而】【且】【这】【不】【是】【还】【有】


  【后】【院】【和】【前】【边】【饭】【馆】【之】【间】【用】【于】【通】【过】【的】【门】,【为】【了】【防】【止】【客】【人】【误】【入】,【正】【常】【情】【况】【下】【是】【上】【了】【锁】【的】。 【也】【正】【好】【是】【这】【道】【锁】,【才】【没】【有】【让】【那】【些】【砸】【店】【的】【人】【进】【入】【到】【后】【院】,【没】【有】【造】【成】【更】【多】【的】【损】【失】。 【舒】【暖】【和】【舒】【浩】【对】【于】【眼】【前】【的】【所】【见】,【都】【很】【是】【气】【愤】。 【两】【人】【打】【扫】【了】【一】【下】【卫】【生】,【清】【点】【了】【这】【次】【的】【损】【失】。 【由】【于】【警】【局】【那】【边】【还】【没】【有】【进】【展】,【舒】【暖】【也】【不】【能】【一】【直】【在】【这】管家婆三中三期期准【终】【于】【完】【本】【了】,【有】【种】【说】【不】【出】【来】【的】【感】【觉】,【这】【本】【书】【成】【绩】【并】【不】【好】,【有】【失】【落】【也】【有】【看】【到】【订】【阅】【和】【读】【者】【加】【群】【的】【一】【种】【自】【豪】【感】,【当】【然】【这】【本】【书】【很】【多】【时】【候】【都】【是】【骂】【我】【或】【者】【是】【觉】【得】【写】【的】【烂】【的】【评】【语】,【我】【之】【前】【也】【是】【看】【到】【这】【样】【的】【评】【论】【就】【删】,【害】【怕】【有】【的】【人】【看】【到】【这】【样】【的】【评】【论】【就】【不】【看】【了】,【这】【种】【情】【况】【对】【于】【我】【来】【说】【多】【少】【也】【是】【打】【击】【的】。 【本】【书】【从】2018【年】5【月】29【号】【楔】【子】

  【可】【她】【不】【知】【道】【的】【是】,【她】【正】【一】【步】【步】【走】【进】【知】【识】【系】【统】【的】【阴】【谋】【之】【中】。 【事】【情】【要】【追】【溯】【到】【几】【天】【前】【林】【凡】【刚】【回】【来】【那】【会】【儿】,【他】【的】【后】【代】【回】【去】【他】【们】【自】【己】【星】【际】【的】【时】【候】,【在】【空】【间】【通】【道】【中】【的】【争】【吵】【凑】【巧】【被】【知】【识】【系】【统】【的】【意】【识】【听】【到】【了】。 “【快】【点】,【我】【们】【要】【快】【点】【把】【医】【生】【带】【过】【来】。” “【可】【是】【叔】【叔】,【祖】【先】【他】【的】【伤】,【真】【的】【还】【有】【可】【能】【救】【回】【来】【吗】?”【另】【一】【个】【稍】【微】【有】【些】【年】

  【徐】【昭】【昭】【眨】【眨】【眼】,【以】【为】【苏】【沐】【要】【跟】【她】【击】【掌】,【于】【是】【便】【一】【巴】【掌】【拍】【了】【上】【去】,【问】:“【看】【什】【么】【啊】?” 【这】【一】【巴】【掌】【是】【真】【用】【力】【啊】!【疼】【的】【他】【手】【心】【发】【红】。 【只】【不】【过】【苏】【沐】【现】【在】【很】【无】【语】。 【他】【将】【自】【己】【的】【手】【掌】【几】【乎】【都】【快】【放】【到】【了】【徐】【昭】【昭】【跟】【前】,【又】【问】:“【仔】【细】【看】!” 【徐】【昭】【昭】【皱】【了】【皱】【眉】,【眼】【睛】【在】【他】【手】【掌】【上】【看】【来】【看】【去】,【最】【后】【才】【发】【现】【他】【的】【小】【拇】【指】【上】【面】【套】【着】

  “【即】【便】【你】【再】【怎】【么】【喊】,【她】【也】【不】【会】【出】【来】【的】。” 【地】【动】【山】【摇】,【地】【上】【的】【石】【头】【沙】【石】【树】【木】【不】【断】【飞】【起】【来】,【一】【个】【高】【达】【万】【米】【的】【巨】【人】【逐】【渐】【形】【成】,【形】【成】【后】,【光】【华】【闪】【耀】,【让】【人】【睁】【不】【开】【眼】【睛】,【即】【便】【是】【灵】【魂】【状】【态】【的】【祁】【方】【和】【黑】【脸】【男】【也】【是】【如】【此】。 【再】【睁】【开】【眼】【时】,【一】【个】【身】【着】【龙】【袍】,【头】【戴】【冕】【冠】【的】【中】【年】【男】【子】【出】【现】【在】【两】【人】【面】【前】,【身】【高】【八】【尺】【六】【寸】,【高】【大】【威】【猛】。 【随】

  【十】【几】【年】【前】,【皇】【甫】【彧】【停】【妻】【再】【娶】【时】,【他】【还】【没】【有】【篡】【位】【登】【基】,【自】【然】【做】【很】【多】【事】【情】【都】【处】【处】【受】【限】【制】。【好】【比】【他】【想】【休】【掉】【卫】【氏】,【必】【须】【要】【有】【乾】【明】【皇】【帝】【或】【者】【太】【后】【下】【旨】【才】【能】【办】【得】【到】。【而】【太】【后】【对】【他】【休】【掉】【高】【祖】【指】【定】【的】【发】【妻】,【另】【娶】【夏】【侯】【氏】【十】【分】【不】【满】,【乾】【明】【皇】【帝】【以】【孝】【顺】【闻】【名】,【自】【然】【也】【不】【会】【违】【逆】【母】【后】,【帮】【弟】【弟】【下】【这】【个】【旨】。 【无】【奈】【之】【下】,【皇】【甫】【彧】【只】【能】【逼】【着】【卫】【氏】【出】【家】